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Wednesday, June 26. 2013Junk Medicine: Lyme DiseaseLyme Disease (Borreliosis) is endemic in the Northeast US, and probably always has been. That complicates diagnosis because so many people in the area have been exposed to the germ, and thus show some degree of antibodies to it. Many if not most cases of Lyme are subclinical and never diagnosed. The spirochete-like bug is transmitted by the bite of a mostly-mouse-born tick called a Black-Legged Tick or Deer Tick. The Tick is much smaller than the common dog tick, and much harder to find on your body. Ordinary dog ticks are harmless, if annoying, and can not be confused with the Deer Tick. Lyme Disease is readily treated with antibiotics, but about ten years ago one of those disease fads came along, so appealing to hypochondriacs and hysterics, called "Chronic Lyme." As with other fake disease fads like Chronic Fatigue and, in my opinion, Fibromyalgia, Chronic Lyme believers often made themselves into invalids with vague aches and pains. I thought the Chronic Lyme fad had passed into the history of medical faddism, but I see this odd and credulous article in The New Yorker: The Lyme Wars. The Lyme-disease infection rate is growing. So is the battle over how to treat it. There are two serious errors right in the title. The infection rate is not growing: the diagnosis is growing and probably many people with aches and pains are being unnecessarily treated for Lyme just because they have been exposed to it at some point in their life. Second, I have never heard of any credible Infectious Disease doc in New England who had any question about how to treat real Lyme. Here's one brief index to fad diagnoses but I am sure there is a better, more comprehensive one. The current fad is "gluten intolerance." There are a few quacks out there, but many more crocks.
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Tuesday, June 25. 2013As I have said before, the DSM is an obsessional disorder
I do not have time to put together a coherent post on the topic today, but I believe that the mandarins of my profession have lost all connection to what taking care of hurting people is all about. Dr. Frances does not go far enough, at all. Wednesday, June 19. 2013The Sexual Harassment Epidemic
It doesn't matter whether they are gay, straight, or mixed-up. It happens when you put people together. People of strong character do not act on impulse when it is inappropriate, but many cannot resist the pull or just don't want to resist. It's fighting nature, and the addition of alcohol or other substances doesn't help. Neither does being away from home. People do get attached, form bonds, develop partnerships, loyalty, etc but raw desire has no respect for these civilized things. Furthermore, people need, at the very least, some form of "maintenance sex" for comfort but it is no insulation from reckless desires and romantic aspirations. It seems to me that "sexual harassment" has come to include many expressions of virile or feminine sexual interest, extending the concept far beyond physical aggression (which is illegal. That is termed "assault," and can be felonious) to "unwelcome" advances. In my life, I have been subject to hundreds of unwelcome advances from both men and women, and some of them were, well, forceful but not physically forceful. Weaker women might view much of it as harassment, but I took most of it in good humor because my brothers, my protectors, taught me about male tendencies. Women learn how to brush them off, but one of those advances turned out to be my husband of quite a few years and up to the present. A good guy, very shy and very smart, but who got up his courage to act like any other jerk because he felt he could not resist me. I could somehow tell that he was a good guy. Now I read that the US Navy doesn't want guys looking at pictures of girls in the bathroom. What do they want these fellows to do for relief? Do they want an all-gay Navy? Or eunuchs? From John Derbyshire, The Sexual Harassment Panic The PC attitude seems to be to overstimulate children, but to de-sexualize adults. Or de-sexualize heterosexual adults, anyway. Does that make sense?
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Monday, June 10. 2013Asperger's no longer exists
The problem with the DSM is that it (the booklet) is taken too seriously. Nobody knows whether there is an Autism Spectrum. Thursday, May 30. 2013The Book of Woe: The DSM and the Unmaking of Psychiatry
Wednesday, May 29. 2013A brief history of Psychiatric hospitalization
Today, our treatments for Bipolar Disorder (aka Manic-Depression) are pretty good. Our treatments for the group of Schizophrenias are not very good. We can often remove acute symptoms but can not help people function at a normal level. They are mis-wired. Efforts to help the seriously-ill, in hospitals, hospices, was termed "Moral Treatment." The asylum approach was largely undone with the deinstitutionalization movement under JFK. Thus bag ladies. Here's a summary: A New Moral Treatment - Humane institutionalization can help the mentally ill and protect society. He might be right. I am not sure.
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Tuesday, May 28. 2013The Romeo and Juliet Problem
I have no answers. It's discussed here: Kaitlyn Hunt and the Romeo and Juliet problem.
Wednesday, May 22. 2013Memory is flawed
Psychiatrists and Psychoanalysts know how to listen stories and information as "memory data" with all of the selection, distortion, factual accounts, mental constructions, etc. which are part of memory. We are trained to listen as if watching a movie. Since we are not judges or juries, "truth" is not necessarily our pursuit although we can be quick to call "bullshit" when needed because people lie and manipulate too. We are not truth-relativists, but our focus is elsewhere. One of the fascinating things about Psychoanalysis is to see how memory narratives change during the process. Even recent memories are subject to distortion: Trust your memory? Maybe you shouldn't.
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Tuesday, May 21. 2013Psychiatry's New Diagnostic Manual, the DSM 5: "Don't Buy It. Don't Use It. Don't Teach It."
Related, from Dr. McHugh: DSM-5: A Manual Run Amok - It's time for psychiatry to drop its field guide and try to
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Tuesday, May 14. 2013The Salt Wars are over. Salt is one of those things that drive dietary cranks, control-freaks, and ignorant do-gooders nuts. There really is no reason for that. Most of us docs have been saying this for years and I have made this point here in the past. Salt is an absolutely necessary nutrient for all animals, and very low levels of sodium chloride can make you sick or dead. The average, normal human body contains around 50 quarts of salt water. The reason people used to advise "low-salt" diet is because excess dietary sodium is a bad idea for people with kidney failure and congestive heart failure, and people with uncontrolled high blood pressure (with its associated higher risks of heart attack and stroke). However, salt does not cause those things. Significantly-high blood pressure is easily dealt with these days. Heart failure will likely kill you in time regardless of what you do (barring a heart transplant), but it is treatable with medicines and some salt restriction. The new study from the CDC: No Benefit in Salt Restriction. The American Heart Association is not up to date on the topic: Sodium is Your enemy. If you have high blood pressure, get it under reasonable control with your doctor. If you have organ failure (eg kidney or heart failure), or have some other ailment, do whatever your doc says. If you're healthy, enjoy your salt. It makes food taste better. One recipe tip: I always season a salad with salt and pepper. It makes rabbit food taste almost good. Don't get me on the topic of whether green salad is "healthy." (It's neither healthy nor unhealthy. It's just filler.)
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Monday, May 13. 2013Are Conservative-Libertarians paranoid? Are Lefties immature?
World-views differ, as do views of human nature. It makes life interesting and interestingly-contentious.` Still, once you get past the insulting title this is a good post: On the Arrested Development of the Left:
Addressing the tough realities of the real world, and the depressing limits of one's own self, are the best vitamins. Mr. Solway references Rieff's challenging book, The Triumph of the Therapeutic: Uses of Faith after Freud.
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Tuesday, May 7. 2013A few Shrink Links: The DSM and the difficulties making Psychiatry "scientific"
A few relevant and interesting links: - The Real Problems With Psychiatry - A psychotherapist contends that the DSM, psychiatry's "bible" that defines all mental illness, is not scientific but a product of unscrupulous politics and bureaucracy. Not to mention the pharmaceutical industry. Always question Authority! - Psychiatry’s Guide Is Out of Touch With Science, Experts Say in the NYT via 1 Boring Old Man's Groundhog Day - How Scientific Is Psychiatry? Like many fields of endeavor, good Psychiatry is part art, part science, but mixed with much life experience, much interpersonal experience, and as much painful self-knowledge as the doc him- or herself can handle to "sharpen the scalpel" as it were. We are called upon to be experts in real life, relationships, religion, the brain, the mind, the body, and the soul. It's a tall order which is why it is often termed "the impossible profession." Readers know that I have trademarked the term "psycho-utopianism" to refer to the naive and reductionistic notion that, if all our our chemicals and all of our neurons were straightened out, and if we docs could fix it all by a cookbook, we'd all be some kind of "normal" and some kind of moral and some kind of "happy" of a serene, bourgeois sort. It ain't never gonna happen, and it's for the best that it cannot. It would not be human, and it would not be real life. I recently was referred an evaluation for depression. Patient fit the DSM perfectly, but it didn't "smell right" to me so I took a chance and ordered her a total body MRI. She had an undiagnosed gastric cancer.
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Sunday, April 28. 2013LeadershipExecutive decision-making is a skill. Good executive decision-making seems to be a talent. These are neither skills nor talents that I was blessed with, but that's probably just as well. I've never been much of a leader, and never a good follower either. My major life decisions have always made me nauseous. Medicine has been the right field for me. Independent work, endlessly interesting, and cautious, careful, conservative decision-making comes easily to me. From Harvard Biz School, "While elevated narcissism and self-promotion has been shown to result in quicker promotion early in one's career, its negative impacts are revealed in positions of higher authority." As in the sports world, in the biz world, if you cannot produce winning decisions consistently and with integrity, you will eventually go down. It's rough out there. I hear all of the stories and all of the excuses, but the most talented and honest do pretty well and never make excuses for their disappointments. Competition is a big part of life, and an exciting part of it.
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Friday, April 26. 2013Dr. Marsh now raises Christmas trees in Ipswich, Mass.
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Wednesday, April 24. 2013How Often Should Married Couples Have Sex?
In my professional opinion, younger guys seem to be OK and relatively calm with sex twice daily. They are monkeys. Older fellows seem to get by with anywhere from daily to 3-4 times/week, depending on how hard and long they work at their jobs. Women are an entirely different topic, but my general advice to women is to remove the TV from the bedroom. Not to worry ladies - they will put it back in our bedrooms 24 hrs/day when we're demented widows in the nursing home. We can catch up with our shows and movies then. Carpe diem. Apropos of the topic, I saw that Glenn Reynolds linked this book: Lube Jobs: A Woman's Guide to Great Maintenance Sex. Library journal commented about it, "Most people spend the largest part of their adulthood slogging through committed relationships, and they need books like this." Good cozy marital snuggles can make up for a lot of troubles. But "slogging"? If you're slogging, it's your own darn fault. I have patients deep into their 70s and 80s with quite satisfying and jolly sex lives even when they know far more than they want to know about their spouses, and when their equipment is not what it once was. We are, in part, biological beings. Monday, April 22. 2013Blind to evilHave Americans lost the sense of evil? I don't really think so. Some say that, nowadays, the cognoscenti can only use the word ironically, but I don't agree with that entirely either. After all, I have read too much vitriol from the Left directed towards people like me, labeling us (non-ironically) as evil. In other words, I think "evil" has been secularized or politicized. At the same time, attempts are made to psycho-babbleize it away. Without writing an opus on the topic, I'll make just a few points about evil (from a non-religious standpoint). Evil thoughts and impulses exist in everyone, to varying degrees, whether consciously or unconsciously. It never appears in pure form. A normal human conscience, along with social pressures, fear, a desire not to be destructive, etc. permit most of us to live without enacting very many evil deeds. Some people, in denial of their own dark sides, project evil into others. Some people attempt to deny the existence of evil anywhere. Some people try to erase the presence of evil by what we call "identification with the aggressor", of which the Stockholm Syndrome is an extreme example. To look upon evil, wherever it is and however banal it may appear on the surface, is frightening. In the movies it can be exciting, but in real life it is deeply scary. Thus thoughts like this: St. Louis U. student asks, “Why don’t we talk about evil anymore?” and this: Why Does Evil Make Liberals Stupid? A quote from that:
And this one: Jihad Will Not Be Wished Away - But willful blindness remains the order of the day. I am sorry to say that Mukasey has it right: Make No Mistake, It Was Jihad - Let's hope the administration gets over its reluctance to recognize attacks on the U.S. for what they are. All sorts of things can help unleash the cruelty and destructiveness in people, but I won't get into all of that now because I only want to mention one of the things: communal support of evil. If only 7% of Muslims are inclined to active Jihad, that's 100 million people. That's no mob - that's a large nation of killers and would-be killers of infidels and they are all on the same page. Jihadists believe the West is evil. "Submit or die." They are convinced of their virtuousness, but they are as wrong as can be because all that we in the West want is to be left alone and to truly "coexist" peacefully. Here's an interesting 1996 book by Columbia Prof Andrew Delblanco: The Death of Satan: How Americans Have Lost the Sense of Evil
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Tuesday, April 16. 2013Catching Bennies and Sunshine PhobiaEvery four years I let my Dermatologist buddy scope out my skin with his special lights and magic glasses. He doesn't miss a single square centimeter of it, scalp to anus to the bottoms of my graceful feet. I'd like to avoid death by melanoma, if possible. Not sure what I want to die from, but I just want it to not be right now. $175, cash for 1/2 hr. consult (he won't do insurance), including the good conversation and comraderie, plus a pile of samples for my spot of eczema and a little nitrogen zapping of some ancient sun damage to my face. He knows that I have spent all of the time I could in my life outdoors, usually without hat and never with disgusting sunblock (except maybe on the nose when the Mrs. makes me). When I was at prep school, we termed sunshine "catching bennies," ie the beneficial rays of the sun. Studying Latin or dozing on the lawns. I have happily spent all the time I can on boats, soccer fields, lacrosse fields, golf courses, tennis courts, tractors, trout streams, skiing, beaches, gardens, and hunting fields since I was a kid. As he scrutinized my beautiful, well-fed, pasty-white-skinned body, he told me that one problem he has is people with sun phobia. He said people require an hour or two daily of exposure to unblocked sunshine (not sunburn), and that sun phobia (especially with kids covered with hats and sunblock) is a more important health hazard than benign sun-related skin cancers (which are pretty much all easily-curable when found in a timely way). Our skin produces instantly-bioavailable and natural Vit D, necessary for normal bone growth, vitality, and disease-avoidance (cancer, heart disease, depression, osteoporosis, etc.). In the US, they add Vit D to milk (but only enough to prevent rickets in little kids) and it's far from enough to substitute for wholesome playing in the sunshine. Sunburn bad (possibly but not definitely associated with melanoma, but definitely associated with wrinkles), but wholesome sunshine (even through clouds) is good for us. Not to mention the reality that a little tan makes us crackers look more attractive. My dermatologist claims that we evolved to live in the nude, outdoors. Sheesh. I'd try it, but I would get arrested because I do not live in San Francisco - and I would have to fight off the women.
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Sunday, April 14. 2013Aping Mankind
Tallis, a neurologist (and amateur and impressive philosopher) wrote the book as a critique of biological and evolutionary reductionism. Here's a brief review from the WSJ.One quote: Here's a quote from an Amazon reviewer: Aping Mankind is negative research. While most popular-science writers attempt to weave compelling stories from the latest neuroscience experiments to explain 'why we are the way we are', Tallis attempts to show why these stories simply cannot be true. If you are skeptical of media--and scientific journal--headlines such as "Researchers discover the location of love in the brain", then you may enjoy Aping Mankind. In this work Tallis exposes the odd proclivity of scholars, from biologists to literary critics, to anthropomorphize pieces of matter while simultaneously dehumanizing human beings. In effect we are systematically transferring our humanity to matter, and this may not be good for our health--just like vitamins. Returning to Signorelli's impressive review which opens like this:
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Friday, April 12. 2013Self-help with addictionsI am a big fan of AA as a help with addiction and as a method for personal growth and maturity. It's not the only way, but it might be the best way for those who have trouble with it. Recently, people have recommended two books by Allen Carr: Tuesday, April 9. 2013Needed: Help with statisticsIt's been far too long since I studied, or used statistics other than to read medical journal articles. Everybody talks about Bayesian Statistics nowadays. They are the new old thing, almost 100 years older than Fisher Statistics (Fisher was an interesting fellow). In my youth, I learned to be always skeptical about any research results, but I am told that running data through Bayesian methods is a good test of data. Can somebody explain the concept to me in simple English? I don't intend to use it, just to get the ideas (I can do the math, but I want something conceptual for starters.) Most Liberal Arts students learned basic Stats in college, the p and the t-test, etc., but the Bayesian is new to me.
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Thursday, April 4. 2013Shopaholic, or Bipolar Spectrum?Reading Buzz Bissinger's confession, My Gucci Addiction, I would have to seriously consider the Bipolar possibility were I his doctor:
Not everybody who does crazy things has a diagnosis, but unless Mr. Bissinger has inherited $100 million, somebody ought to try to stop him before he blows himself up. It does not sound like his wife is likely to do that. Friday, March 29. 2013My final post on gay marriage - A brief shrinkology storyI saw a nice lady for consultation a few years ago. She was distraught, wanted help in rebuilding her life and her emotional strength. Her husband, age 54, had, after an evening of good sex with her, informed her that he had realized that he was gay, and needed to leave her to pursue a gay life style because he did not want to deceive her or betray her. They cried together and held eachother. She cried for two weeks. After that, she began having panic attacks. He moved out, and the legal aspects of the divorce proceedings had been easy and mutually agreeable. Six months had gone by and she still felt shattered. The reality of her life had been exploded. I told her that grief takes at least a year. Mind you, this was a sophisticated urban woman who had once been in the fashion business and who assured me she could readily identify gay guys at a distance. He had always been a loving, sexy, loyal husband with no hyper-macho ways, and no stereotypical gay interests or mannerisms. Good father, too. He worked in finance. In the six months apart, she told me that he had seemed to transform himself from an ordinary fellow into a flamboyantly gay man who drinks too much, dyes his hair, spends weekends in Provincetown and weeknights in gay bars. He told her it took him 40 years "to find his inner fag." He says he'll love her forever, support her and the kids, but now has found his real self and feels happier than he ever had. I thought to myself "That was a real gay marriage." I also wondered whether he was Bipolar, but it didn't matter because it was over and her challenge was to write what I term "a new chapter." I had seen this a number of times before, in mid-life men and in women too. I can't say I understand it. Nobody really does, but I do understand the grief. Agonizing. I also understand the horror of wondering whether much of one's life has been fraudulently-lived in a fake reality. In my line of work, I encounter plenty of people who live in fake realities of their own construction, but it's not ordinarily about sexual matters. It's usually about other things. I carry the burden of a thousand stories in my soul, but don't feel sorry for me. It's a privilege, and I get paid to carry them. (nb: real details of this story are totally altered and combined - fake but true)
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Saturday, March 23. 2013How Therapists Screw Up their Children
It's a perennial topic, however. If therapist-types do, I think it comes from being over-attentive, over-protective, overly-empathic, and not respecting kids' resilience and adaptability. How Therapists Screw Up their Children. It's important for therapist-types to put their work hat on before work, and to take it off after work. This on parenting is related: Please Do Not Adjust Your Child
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Sunday, March 17. 2013The Doctor Won't See You Now.Unlike, it seems, some or many of the young women in Medicine today (50%), I never had any interest in being anybody's employee. The Doctor Won't See You Now. He's Clocked Out. ObamaCare is pushing physicians into becoming hospital employees. The results aren't encouraging. My freedom in practice is to see people anytime I want or can, to work whatever hours I want to, to follow no imposed treatment protocols, to set my own fees and to provide as much charity as I wish, and to help anybody I chose to. Nobody tells me what to do or how to do it. Maybe I'm a dinosaur. I'll see patients on a Saturday or Sunday if need be. A quote from the article:
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Sunday, March 10. 2013Why addicts say "yes"Amateur addicts always have an excuse, but those who are honest with themselves will admit that it just makes them feel good and that they have addictive tendencies. There's a Reason That Addicts Say Yes to Drugs.
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