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Saturday, March 23. 2013

How Therapists Screw Up their Children


If psychotherapists "screw up" their children any more than anybody else, I haven't seen the data. (My own kids, BTW, are perfect.) Biggest issue with parenting these days? Trying to be friends with the young. They can be pals when they grow up and achieve independence but, until then, make your own friends.


It's a perennial topic, however. If therapist-types do, I think it comes from being over-attentive, over-protective, overly-empathic, and not respecting kids' resilience and adaptability.  How Therapists Screw Up their Children.


It's important for therapist-types to put their work hat on before work, and to take it off after work.


This on parenting is related: Please Do Not Adjust Your Child

Posted by Dr. Joy Bliss in Our Essays, Psychology, and Dr. Bliss at 14:26 | Comments (2) | Trackbacks (0)

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There is a couple who advertise on the radio something called "total transformation" for misbehaving kids. The commercial starts out with the woman describing how her son told her he hated her. Every time I hear that I wonder why anyone would choose them for help.
#1 Mike K (Link) on 2013-03-23 22:13 (Reply)
Thurber has a self-help book "Let Your Mind Alone!" that fisks self help books that he's come across.
#2 rhhardin (Link) on 2013-03-24 06:40 (Reply)

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