We are a commune of inquiring, skeptical, politically centrist, capitalist, anglophile, traditionalist New England Yankee humans, humanoids, and animals with many interests beyond and above politics. Each of us has had a high-school education (or GED), but all had ADD so didn't pay attention very well, especially the dogs. Each one of us does "try my best to be just like I am," and none of us enjoys working for others, including for Maggie, from whom we receive neither a nickel nor a dime. Freedom from nags, cranks, government, do-gooders, control-freaks and idiots is all that we ask for.
It depends. I would forgive anyone who apologized and was sincere. I probably would forgive anyone for most things who was gone as in a public place and we moved on or something similar. I would not forgive an assault on my family or myself and I might just be forced to do something that I would have to seek forgiveness for. I no longer hold any grudges for bad drivers or even intentional acts by other drivers. It happens, I try to avoid either an accident with them or a confrontation and move on and forget and forgive. I respect older people, women and small children and would probably not even be so upset by anything they might do that it would require forgiveness.
I'll admit that I didn't read the entire essay, so consider this a (mere) reaction.
I stopped abruptly about 1/4 of the way through when it occurred to me that, while being so far about Pope Benedict and involving praying and such, all the analysis was from entirely secular sources. Putting aside surface characteristics like the lack of Biblical cites, it seems to me that the proper, primary, only perspective for a Christian to approach forgiveness is: How can I be more Christ-like? How would Jesus want me to respond? With a (distant) secondary discussion concerning: How does God want justice administered on this still-fallen planet where His justice/grace isn't always manifest, and especially not by the civilian authorities (for whatever that's worth). "The Point" didn't hit The Point, IMO. Different perspectives, or perhaps purposes, I guess.
Pretentious and sophomoric NPR stuff. Mark's questions are a much more interesting and meaningful discussion.
Christ's ideas of forgiveness are much different than those outside of Christendom. They are two different concepts. The author doesn't seem to understand this.