We are a commune of inquiring, skeptical, politically centrist, capitalist, anglophile, traditionalist New England Yankee humans, humanoids, and animals with many interests beyond and above politics. Each of us has had a high-school education (or GED), but all had ADD so didn't pay attention very well, especially the dogs. Each one of us does "try my best to be just like I am," and none of us enjoys working for others, including for Maggie, from whom we receive neither a nickel nor a dime. Freedom from nags, cranks, government, do-gooders, control-freaks and idiots is all that we ask for.
None of us have a doctorate in metaphysics nowadays (I think), but is life just a dream?
I like to imagine that my life has my own steering wheel, but I am not sure about that. I do know that all lives have or need some sort of anchorage, centering, lodestar - whatever. Do we live in a God's simulation? Is that Judeo-Christian view?
Best if I shut up before writing more. This is interesting:
Our lives are not our own; to claim so would be to claim to have created oneself. We have little control, although it is easy to deceive oneself that one has, but we do have free will and therefore the moral privilege to make choices in specific situations.
Pertaining to your last line from above. It seems that when I took anthropology many years ago the professor told us that almost all if not all early civilizations developed a god or gods to lead their lives. Humans have gods to lead them on a path for a good life even if some leaders of the people pervert the will of their god/gods. He seemed to state that needing a deity was built into the human code.