Maggie's Farm

From the sexual revolution story: "What women need is the freedom to behave as men have always behaved, enjoying all the pleasures of casual sex, porn, BDSM, and indeed any other sexual delight that the human mind can dream up."

This is a failure of education, math for example. If men are having casual sex than for every example of that a woman is also having casual sex. For some inexplicable reason most people who expound on this subject can't seem to comprehend that math. Then there is "porn". Seriously have you ever watched the show bachelor and bachelorette? That is women's porn and they consume it constantly.

OK. Challenge taken. Let's say some man decides to go to a bar and meets a women and they end up in bed that night and never see each other again. That would be the generally accepted definition of casual sex. There are variations but to make my point none of those variations matter.

Was there a women involved? Well of course! We aren't talking about homosexual sex or animals or gee, i simply don't know what else. So, did she have casual sex or not... Take your time... But of course she did. And by logic and math evcery time a man has casual sex a woman does as well.

OK, next challenge. What is porn. For some men it is sucking women's toes. Yeah I don't get it either but that is their porn. For most men it is bare necked women having sex with a man (and a lot of women too, a lot more than you might think). That is their porn. For a lot of women it is handsome men with muscles catering to and doing stupid things at the behest of silly giggling women. It IS their porn. Prove me wrong!

"to civilize men." OK, I "kinda" agree with that point. However not for the reasons you state. I'm 79, when I was a teen the girls did not have intercourse with you, what we might call casual sex. BUT they did everything else!!! Was all those sweet nights holding here titties and fingering her pussy while she p[erformed various acts on my dick "civilized"??? I don't think so. They simply did not want to get pregnant but they really did want to screw but choose instead all the other options instead. In other words they were just as sexual and "uncivilized" as the men. Later, I was married and only heard about the action and sadly didn't partake. Girls/women who would do two or three men a night (not necessarily at the same time but kind of sequential) i could go on but you get my point. Most of the women I have seen would screw you and if you were unwilling they would screw the guy at the next table. Especially when fueled with alcohol or drugs. Not exactly the civilized sex.

"Consider ten men and ten women. One woman has sex with all ten men, the other nine women don't have sex with anyone."

Well of course I considered that but wouldn't have said it because it is the same as calling women whores.

IMHO sex, including casual sex is normal. NOT uncivilized for either man or woman. I think, from my limited life experience, that casual sex is simply a case where one or more of the participants didn't find their life partner and decided to end the sexual relationship, again something I would consider normal for humans. The problem, the fake part of all this, is the denial. Generally women want to deny they have sex or enjoy casual sex so they make it appear that it is only men who do so. But as I pointed out that is mathematically impossible and as you pointed out to say that some women are vastly more promiscuous than men isn't a pretty statement no matter how you say it.

Another part of this fairy tale about sex men vs women is that women would prefer to wait to have sex while men want it on the first date. Well... For unmarried women between the ages of 13-30 something this is simply not true. However for women 40 something plus (married or not) it is not only true but it is the rule. This dichotomy and the desire for most women to rewrite their sexual history is where all or most all of the hearsay of women being more civilized comes from. To put that another way in the first 15 years of a women's sexual life she will do more men than a man does women in the same time period. After that she more or less could care less about sex 'except' to use it to get something she wants.

Hey it is what it is. Sex is normal and everyone lies about it to one extent or the other.

"What mathematical truth?"

Glad you asked, but if you had any reading comprehension you wouldn't need to.

OK Again for those who don't know sex between a man and a woman means that there is a man there AND a woman there!! TaDah! So whether you are talking about 1 or 1 million examples of casual sex there is a man AND a women having casual sex. It's a one to one thingy.

"What is mathematically impossible? "
It is mathematically impossible for their to be casual sex between a man and a women and yet for the woman to not have had casual sex. How do you not get this??? If a man is 'doing' a woman then (wait for it...) there is a woman being 'done' and vice versa. Dah!

"it's quite possible for most men to have multiple sex partners and most women not to have multiple sex partners."

Yes and vice versa! But that doesn't change the fact that if a woman is having casual sex with a man that there is an actual man there. It's a one on one thing. You seem hung up on an unprovable and illogical belief that there is this one woman out there somewhere and she is the only woman to ever have had casual sex and all the rest are as pristine as the driven snow, Where did you grow up? In a nunnery? Believe it or not women do have sex but they prefer to deny that they have sex. It simply does not change the formula. If a man or woman is having sex (do I need to point out again I'm not talking about homosexual or animal sex) than their is a woman or man having sex with them. It is a one on one thing and that is how it works.

You had referred to "a failure of education, math for example.

Yeah something as simple as 1 + 1 = 2.

"Don't think that people have sex is much of a mystery to most anyone in high school."

Exactly! You got it now. What is a mystery is why people lie about it and accept the lies.