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Sunday, April 8. 2018

Why Self-Esteem Is Self-Defeating

This is part of the backlash against the silly "self-esteem" movement of the 1980s.




Posted by Dr. Joy Bliss in Psychology, and Dr. Bliss at 15:15 | Comments (3) | Trackbacks (0)

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I have always steered those conversations toward "self-respect" instead, which I think is a healthier concept. Whatever wrong one has done, one's next act can always be in the direction of the honorable course.
#1 Assistant Village Idiot (Link) on 2018-04-08 21:21 (Reply)
Dunning Kruger.
#2 OldFert on 2018-04-09 22:00 (Reply)
Many years ago, a friend's son came home from school having had the "I'm special" class. To which friend did agree, somewhat. Her comment to me was that, while she didn't mind the teacher telling the students they were all special, she wished that the teacher had pointed out that everyone was special, and that included Mum, Dad, big brother, and even little sister. Oh, yes, she wanted one final proviso: special people picked up after themselves and helped with the chores.
#3 Frances on 2018-04-09 22:27 (Reply)

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