We are a commune of inquiring, skeptical, politically centrist, capitalist, anglophile, traditionalist New England Yankee humans, humanoids, and animals with many interests beyond and above politics. Each of us has had a high-school education (or GED), but all had ADD so didn't pay attention very well, especially the dogs. Each one of us does "try my best to be just like I am," and none of us enjoys working for others, including for Maggie, from whom we receive neither a nickel nor a dime. Freedom from nags, cranks, government, do-gooders, control-freaks and idiots is all that we ask for.
When I was a young man pretty women did indeed control me. They seemed to enjoy it, I certainly did too. It was a symbiotic relationship. Now at my age I have three young grand daughters who like to control me.
She didn't mention the pheromones that women employ.
I knew a woman who, although average, had men falling at her feet. She wasn't overly manipulative as far as I know, but many, if not most, men in her sphere went nuts for her. She finally got me even though I saw it coming. I was unrequited, but a real bad drug. Fate intervened and gave me an opportunity elsewhere. But a year or so later, I was back at the same facility. We'd meet for coffee, I marveled at the drug impact determining it must be pheromonal. This was confirmed when once after an invite for coffee, I was distracted because something had changed. No drug impact in her presence. After getting coffee and finding a table, the change was revealed. She was engaged. It was the engagement that was new, she'd been living with the guy for a year or two. That was interesting. Suddenly, like a faucet, the pheromones were no longer delivering the drug.
I now approach this drug, which even unrequited is a good ride, as a recovering addict.
I suspect the potential murderess in the video also had a pheromonal effect on men, but she'd learned to use it for her own profit. That's why she wanted him to come see her. In addition, to the touch manipulation, which was probably not an option for a jail visit.