We are a commune of inquiring, skeptical, politically centrist, capitalist, anglophile, traditionalist New England Yankee humans, humanoids, and animals with many interests beyond and above politics. Each of us has had a high-school education (or GED), but all had ADD so didn't pay attention very well, especially the dogs. Each one of us does "try my best to be just like I am," and none of us enjoys working for others, including for Maggie, from whom we receive neither a nickel nor a dime. Freedom from nags, cranks, government, do-gooders, control-freaks and idiots is all that we ask for.
Ladies do love their orgasms and tend to value them more highly than men do. They are deeper, and last longer, than the male version.
I have known women who come to orgasm when just making out with their hubbies, and women who cannot achieve climax after an hour of rambunctious bedroom fun. Quite a few women have orgasms with exercise in the gym, on horses, or with a quick masturbation. It's a spectrum, and I do not think that it is mainly psychological. Male primates were designed to spread their alpha seed by any means possible, and they did, and still do, often selfishly without extensive attention to female satisfaction. Biologically, the female pleasure component is just gravy but it makes the fellows feel extra happy.
Women envy those hot women who can orgasm after a minute of sexual activity. Most can not. One lucky gal I spoke with told me that she orgasms the instant her husband's organ touches her labia, and goes on for six or seven more thereafter in twenty minutes. Guys love women like that but it is relatively rare. It seems to be mostly about the anatomy of the clitoris although in the first episodes of a hot new romance anything can happen.
Actually, a woman's orgasm helps the cervix extend, expand, and "suck up" more semen, aiding, one would think, in conception. Mutual orgasm is a good thing from an evolutionary viewpoint. Not that conception doesn't happen without it.
Yes, some women are very responsive. I had one lover who who would orgasm from being lovingly spanked or from giving me a BJ. Others take a lot of work. For some it never happens. I've been honored by more than one woman of giving her the first of her life.
There is an age-related variable involved too. Younger women, in their 20s have orgasms at a lower rate than women in their 40s. The latter seem primed by paramenopause to be increasingly receptive and proceptive.
And it is not just clitorial stimulation either. G-spot and cervix stimulation makes for more powerful, deeper ones, as do those women who orgasm from anal penetration.