We are a commune of inquiring, skeptical, politically centrist, capitalist, anglophile, traditionalist New England Yankee humans, humanoids, and animals with many interests beyond and above politics. Each of us has had a high-school education (or GED), but all had ADD so didn't pay attention very well, especially the dogs. Each one of us does "try my best to be just like I am," and none of us enjoys working for others, including for Maggie, from whom we receive neither a nickel nor a dime. Freedom from nags, cranks, government, do-gooders, control-freaks and idiots is all that we ask for.
A young athlete/student at U of Montana has lost his sports career, his academic career, his reputation, his hope for a future--why? He and a girl friend rented sex films, ate popcorn, sat around watching the films. Went to bed had sex. In the morning when she woke up he was using the "back door". Her complaint--I was asleep (not consensual).
"Believe it or not, modern women want to get married. Trouble is, men don’t. "
I'm not surprised. It's way too easy for a woman to get rich off of men by marrying them, then getting a divorce and a near automatic cut of the guy's income for the rest of his life.
Do that a few times and she's set for life, leaving a trail of devastated (financially, emotionally, socially) men behind.
This is even more so in the UK than some countries, where that exact process is set down in law (she automatically gets that 50% of the guy's income and belongings, no matter who is "to blame" for the divorce).