An ideologue is attached to an ideal regardless of facts.
A cynic believes that selfish self-interest is the primary motivator, especially of others.
A skeptic habitually doubts or questions conclusions of others.
A critic develops judgments based on the merits of the situation or argument.
A freeman uses civil and political rights and liberties, to enjoy life.
These categories may to some extent co-exist in each individual. But, to the extent any of us move predominantly from freeman or tolerant critic to habitual skepticism, or to being a cynic or ideologue, even when moved by others’ intrusion into our rights and liberties, we surrender some or much of our enjoyment.
The trick is to retain our focus on being a freeman (or freewoman, but I’ll use freeman here throughout).
If we don’t, we become susceptible to manipulation of ourselves or becoming manipulators of others. One can’t be securely free when others are not.
Soldiers volunteer knowing that life-and-death choices determine their and others’ fate. In effect, they are determined to be freemen.
The really religious know that opening their heart to G-d gives them freedom to enjoy themselves and others.
The true citizen participates and demands that chosen leaders respect all as freemen.
Look at history. Those whose names and legacy are most treasured were freemen.
Look at yourself. What are you? Really.
If not a freeman, you've surrendered.