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The divorce rate in America for first marriage is 41% The divorce rate in America for second marriage is 60% The divorce rate in America for third marriage is 73%
Interesting stats on divorce
I thought readers might be interested in these divorce figures (via Maggies Farm): The divorce rate in America for first marriage is 41%The divorce rate in America for second marriage is 60%The divorce rate in America for third marriage is 73% I thought
This sounds right to me -- the increasing curve of divorce rates into subsequent marriages. The traits that made divorce look good the first time seem likely to show up again. On the other hand, nearly 100% of second-marriage people had a divorce (death of spouse is rare now) so the second-marriage divorce rate, compared to the divorcee-participation in second marriages, is a little lower than it may look.
My first marriage was a nightmare. My second marriage is mostly peaches and cream.
You're right, Dr. B, that seems completely backward. You'd expect it to follow the 'divorce by age' chart on the site, with divorce rates going down as people get older. In this case, you'd expect a lot of early marriages to blow up "because we were just kids and didn't know what we were doing", then for it to seriously drop as people wised up and made better choices in the future. You'd certainly expect a third marriage to be the strongest of all, since any "we were just kids" excuse has long fallen by the wayside.
And the stat that couples with children have a "slightly" lower rate than childless couples also seem odd, in the sense that it's the kids that usually hold couples on the brink together -- or so we've been led to believe by TV, movies and books. Another cultural myth shattered (sigh).
If you feel like doing a follow-up post, it would be interesting to hear your theories on the above two anomalies. Is it merely cultural, or does it go deeper than that? How do we compare with other Western nations, the world in general, and is it simply because it's a lot easier to get a divorce in America than other nations? Either way, thanks for the interesting post.
What are the statistics on which party files for divorce on first, second, and third? Does the party initiating the divorce continue to be the initiatior in subsequent divorces? My Aunt Nanny was married to five men, had children by two, and in her late sixties remarried the first one (good pension). Her husbands probably had to initiate the divorces because she was no where to be found, having long crossed several state lines, children in tow, with another man. She just never seemed to get over that seven year itch.
I thought readers might be interested in these divorce figures (via Maggies Farm): The divorce rate in America for first marriage is 41%The divorce rate in America for second marriage is 60%The divorce rate in America for third marriage is 73% I thought
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