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Friday, August 28. 2009My School, Part 2Part 1 was posted yesterday morning. This is from Dr. Bliss. The Headmaster also had a policy that all administrators had to teach something - from the Admissions officer to the Provost and the Dean - and coach a sport too (however badly - nobody there cared if you were a lousy coach as long as we all got 2 hours of strenuous sport and fresh air). That was wise. Everybody was a teacher first. Every kid had to take 4 years of an ancient language and 4 years of a modern language, and you had to take math at least up to pre-calc. Plenty of kids flunked out. They would say to the parents "Sally does not seem to want or to be ready to take what we have to offer her here." One of the teachers (or masters, as they were called), with or without their spouse as they wished, presided over every (assigned) table at all meals except breakfast, which was a free-for-all. You could not miss a meal. We students rotated the table service duty, and also the dish-washing duty (in what we called the Wombatorium). We had required, monitored study hall (in old, panelled study halls) every night after dinner except Saturdays, from 7-10. Except for seniors. No talking and no non-textbooks. There was a prayer before breakfast and dinner, which was rotated through the students regardless of their religion. Yes, everybody had to be in a sport, every semester. And every teacher was "Sir" or Ma'am." No complicated "dress code" - just a school uniform which made school shopping very inexpensive. The beds were hard and the rooms were cold in the winter. The only TV was in the snack shop, which opened after sports and closed before evening chapel. Everybody rotated through School Duties: Dinner serving, Sunday Faculty Tea serving, scullery duty, lawn care duty, janitorial duty in the halls and common rooms (dusting, vacuuming), etc. No excuses. There was brief chapel every evening (announcements, a prayer, a Bible reading, a homily, a hymn), and Sunday church, all presided over by the Headmaster with all faculty (and with all spouses and families on Sunday) in attendance. All the features of a low-Anglican service. The Jewish, Protestant (which I am), Hindu, and atheist kids never were converted (as far as I know), but they did learn to appreciate the virtue of a daily rhythm of contemplation and worship. Plus they learned a lot about Christianity. It is worth knowing about. Darn good organist, who was also a Music teacher. My parents sacrificed quite a bit for me to go there: new cars, trips, etc. I am true to my school. I still miss it, in a way.
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Loved the Beach Boys. Took me right back to The Day. By the way, Bird Dog, if you by chance missed it when it came out, there's a charming little movie called That Thing You Do, released in 1996. that's worth a look. It's about a 'garage band' that hits it bigtime. The actors are charming, Tom Hanks plays a professional promoter with a ruthless kindness that's fetching, and the kids -- oh, those kids -- are soo charming. Was I ever this young?
Marianne Your posts have brought back fond memories of my prep school, which hewed very closely to yours, and which was a most wonderful experience. One wonders if such schools still exist (mine was an all-boy school, no day-students, 7th - 12th grade).
My brother was an indifferent student in a decent public elementary school. By contrast, I had done well at that school. My parents moved when he entered 9th grade and enrolled my brother in a highly respected private urban high school (no live-in students). As I recall, students had to wear a coat and tie. My brother responded well to the higher expectations of the private school and transformed himself into a good student.
Oh wow. That is my college - a small private girls college in South Carolina. No slacks on campus except after 2P.M. on Saturdays, required functions where we had to wear white dresses, required P.E., dinner with the house mothers, and table girls to wait on us for each meal. The dining room was three stories and had wall painting and the most elaborate draperies. All the buildings on campus had huge white columns. We had to attend a semester of manners - in the southern tradition. I could have taught the course as my parents ruined every meal we ate with them by hammering home the manners - life in the military plus southern aristocrats... fine combination. So fine that even when I'm eating alone in my house, I can't even force myself to use bad manners. I don't like sports so I took modern dance for four years. It was tolerable because the teacher made me do long, low, runs across the floor to start every class. It got us all laughing so that was fine. My senior year my jock buddies were all put out by a newbie sophomore 'who is the fastest runner ever!'. I said, "I can beat her." They laughed at me but set up a race for the fun of it. The sophomore showed up in running shoes, running shorts and attitude. I had on some wiped-out low-ride Chuck Johnsons, worn-out blue jeans. We lined up to the laughter of everyone. I beat the tar out of her. I mean, I smoked her. Did I get cheers from the seniors, my classmates of four years? No. They hated me for not playing on the field hockey team. Faculty - "Sir, Ma'am" and we were all "Miss _". Southern private girls colleges are called 'Suitcase Colleges' because everyone heads off to The Citadel, Clemson, UNC, USC, Sewanee on the weekends. Great experience and no regrets that it was all girls. That was fun.
Oh. I almost forgot. I did an interpretive dance while James Dickey read a poem. This was during a required function. Just as we finished, the stool he'd perched one plump cheek on collapsed into forty pieces. I managed an interpretive slink off the stage where I collapsed. ` Listen to me Cleopatra/Wonder Woman. Get those two police trained pit bull's of yours. Find those two male nurse's, and let the dogs loose.
I don't think Fergus is cut out for the job. You were smart not to go to a lawyer or the patient advocate for the hospital. Luther was so eloquent in response to your story. It disturbed me so. If those whacked out dogs can't to the job, I'm sure there are a lot of real men on this site that would help you out. I don't buy that race story at all. You can't run that fast in stilettos. Ciao una bella. Sorry to go off topic Dr Joy. I love reading these stories of your schooling. More money is spent on education in the US than anywhere in the world. We all know that the results are not correlated with cash.
Could it be that our good doctor has placed her finger on the mystical ingredient of success? Discipline!!! That mystical ingredient to success starts at home. Schools are not designed to raise kids. If all parents raised their children right, there would be few complaints about schools. As for the private school Dr. Bliss attended, students were sent home - as they are in all private schools. I would have been one of the ones sent home from her school, though not from a lack of discipline. It would have been from being forced into playing sports and from being treated as if I didn't have a brain in my head.
` Reminds me a little bit of where we send our youngest. It's the best school in the world, worth every penny. They rotate the cleanup and lunchroom duties..it's a day school; everyone plays sports; the coaches are wonderful; (some are volunteer parents who know what they're doing); they have chapel; they have prayer; there's a lot of love; best of all they have good old school values and excellent academics.
Dr. Joy,
Sounds more like an indoctrination camp that vessel of education/learning....enjoy your choice of music though !! I went to Kent School which sounds much like your school, except chapel was fairly-high-Anglican. And, there were no girls during the years I attended. Kent may well have been structured, but it was certainly not "an indoctrination camp."
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I am still catching up on some of the abundance of Maggie's posts from the couple of weeks while I was away. Did you read Dr. Bliss' My School, Part 1 and Part 2? I just did. Interesting - and inspiring. You have to spend big bucks to get this
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