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Is it possible for a guy to talk to a lady without checking out her boobs - or her legs?

Is it possible for a gal to talk to a man without checking out his crotch?

Are all humans sex addicts? I need answers!

Posted by Dr. Joy Bliss in Psychology, and Dr. Bliss at 07:02 | Comments (16) | Trackbacks (0)

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I don't think I ever check out a guys crotch when talking. Not now, not when I was a young adult, and not when I was a teen.

#1 Lunacy on 2009-09-02 07:03 (Reply)

I'm in complete agreement. Never have I done such a thing. It didn't occur to me. I couldn't believe it when "liberated" women started going on about men's behinds.

#1.1 Brownie on 2009-09-02 08:41 (Reply)

I agree whole-heartedly. That's not just far down the list, it's not on it. Not now, not ever. Not when talking, not when observing. There most assuredly is a list, but that's not on it.

#1.2 obladioblafa on 2009-09-02 08:55 (Reply)

I do think its possible......to not get caught.

#2 Manyeti on 2009-09-02 07:14 (Reply)

Hahahaha... we spend a lifetime perfecting that skill. As to your question Dr. Bliss, not impossible, but why would you ever want to do such a thing, not look. It's a primal necessity after all, very much hardwired. It's only the thin veneer of civilization that causes us the discomfort when we get caught doing so. And further, yes, I think we are all sex addicts, whether we admit that to ourselves another question entirely.

#2.1 Luther on 2009-09-02 08:29 (Reply)

guilty as charge

#3 phil g on 2009-09-02 10:09 (Reply)

charged...sheesh

#3.1 phil g on 2009-09-02 10:23 (Reply)

In The Artist, His Model, Her Image, His Gaze Karen L. Kleinfelder notices Picasso's obsession with his model, following him into his late porn period.

Then, she says, in his 80s, one day it suddenly stopped, as if he had found an answer. Being a woman, she puts it down to Picasso coming to terms with his mortality.

Being a guy, I'd rather suppose that some neuron finally stopped firing.

#4 rhhardin (Link) on 2009-09-02 10:33 (Reply)

"Agatha, darling!''

``Yes, mamma.''

``Will you go over and look over the photograph album that I see there?''

``Yes, mamma.''

``Dear girl! She is so fond of photographs of Switzerland. Such a pure taste, I think.''

#5 rhhardin (Link) on 2009-09-02 11:05 (Reply)

I'd be flattered if women were checking my crotch, but I've never noticed it....perhaps it does happen?

On the other hand, I hardly ever check out boobs and legs. Well...maybe legs. But it's not an obsession. If I'm engaged in conversation or activity, I rarely pay attention. But once that's done, I'm all eyes.

#6 Rick on 2009-09-02 11:16 (Reply)

Never in life have I checked out a guy's crotch. It has never even entered my mind to do so. If I check out anything, it's his teeth.

This just made me remember some guy I worked for in high school. He was very short and he could not NOT look at our boobs when we had to talk with him. All of us girls used to laugh and make jokes about wishing we could make our boobs move dramatically up or down to scare him, but for sure, it was totally gross and would have been disturbing had he been anything but a cheap pantywaist.
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#7 Meta on 2009-09-02 13:31 (Reply)

I forgot the sex addict part.

No. I'm not a sex addict. But if you come over and fix dinner and clean up, you are so going to get some great head.
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#8 Meta on 2009-09-02 13:40 (Reply)

QUOTE But if you come over and fix dinner and clean up, you are so going to get some great head.:

That's part of why I've learned to cook with a minimum of utensils and cookware.

#9 Arcs on 2009-09-02 14:14 (Reply)

Dr. Joy,

The "nuts" of your quiery was..."addict"....the shells of my response is....." NO NO "...

Did I digress ?

#10 Garry on 2009-09-02 19:54 (Reply)

Ok. Ok. Ok. I'll be open and honest with the readers. In another time, when I looked at a young hunk (anything male). I would asses his potential as a future partner. A part of that assessment included closing my eyes and trying to imagine what it would feel like to hold on to those abs! To wrap my hands/arms around that waist (and, quietly reaching down to assess the but). Yeah--I was not crude--but, I was thinking things through!

#11 apple pie on 2009-09-02 20:08 (Reply)

apple pie,

Is that where the expression..."As American as...." comes from?

#11.1 Garry on 2009-09-02 20:42 (Reply)

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