We are a commune of inquiring, skeptical, politically centrist, capitalist, anglophile, traditionalist New England Yankee humans, humanoids, and animals with many interests beyond and above politics. Each of us has had a high-school education (or GED), but all had ADD so didn't pay attention very well, especially the dogs. Each one of us does "try my best to be just like I am," and none of us enjoys working for others, including for Maggie, from whom we receive neither a nickel nor a dime. Freedom from nags, cranks, government, do-gooders, control-freaks and idiots is all that we ask for.
At least some of this job-division-who-pays-attention-to-what is outside of gender determination. I am an old sarge, a good shot, and a lawn-mowing fiend. I am also usually the one who changes the toilet paper and straightens up the bath mat. I think that nurturing opportunities belong as much to men as to women. I think it's kind of sad that many men have the idea that nurturing is weakening and it's just as sad that many women have the same idea.
Of course, until I got married, I was frequently mistaken for being gay. So maybe sexual roles and tendencies are on continua, occuring in degrees and not on/off.