Via Tigerhawk's A short note on the sunset of gallantry via Good Sh-t's Being a Man, we recall Harvey Mansfield's Manliness. That that review:
The world of gender studies has never before had to confront anyone quite like this solitary rogue male professor of politics. Critics will rail against his excesses and feminists will be indignant and offended. But many women will be charmed by his effrontery, and grateful for the truth and wisdom in Mansfield's elegant treatise.
Every guy aspires to be a strong, gallant, valiant fellow. It's not easy to do.