Maggie's Farm

37) What on Earth do you think you're really accomplishing by getting implants? If you examine your goals, you may find they are not very rational or realistic. Unless you're a professional model or are dedicating your whole life to the goal of marrying an elderly millionaire, the implants are probably not going to bring you much closer to what you really want. What are you really after? You'd better take a hard look at that question before you act on the assumption that implants will get it for you.

38) If you want more male attention, implants may increase the quantity but only with a corresponding decrease in quality. You'll probably get your biggest gains in approval among guys who are most prone to objectifying you, and least prone to treating you as an equal. The guys who like implants the best are those who prefer pornography to live women, and probably find ordinary women a turn-off if they're not somehow artificialized by things like fake hair, shaving, ridiculous shoes, and so on. Implants can be very artificializing.

39) If you want to like your body better, the way to do it is to start liking the body you've got better. If your mindset toward your body is negative, no change of appearance will ever eliminate that! If you think it will, you end up chasing an illusion. When you are in the habit of always finding fault with your body, you will never run out of faults to find... indeed, you'll only find more and more as you get older. It's a trap, and changing your body won't get you out of it -- the one thing that will is to change the fault-finding way of treating yourself. If I treated you that way, I'd be an intolerable asshole... so why treat yourself that way? If you keep hitting your forehead with a rock, that doesn't mean you need a tougher forehead -- it means it's time to put down the rock.

40) If you want a spicier love life... Jesus Christ, if you think implants will help there, I suggest you stick your head into a bucket of ice water until you come to your senses. The only way implants ever help people's love lives is as a temporary crutch to get over inhibitions caused by body shame. This effect wears off. The only lasting way to remove such shame and inhibition is to tackle them directly -- for instance, to just start unconditionally refusing to view yourself as something to be ashamed of, and then working with whatever obstacles come up in trying to stick to that. It's slow to change but nothing can stop you if you stick to that decision. (And incidentally, it just might revolutionize your whole life.)

http://www.paulkienitz.net/no-implants.html