Good point: How come drunk women are assumed irresponsible and cannot give consent, but drunk guys are expected to make sober, sexless choices when they have a bit of a buzz going, and the girl next to him looks like a horse but, to him at that moment, looks like Marilyn Monroe? Englishman's Castle.
Isn't that based on a sexist assumption that women are mentally frail, but men are strong?
Most men aspire to mental, physical, emotional and spiritual strength. It doesn't mean that they achieve it.