Maggie's Farm

"many men are attracted to women with borderline traits because of the drama."

Couldn't be more wrong. Most men have dated a women with what is being called here "borderline traits", but is actually called crazy by the 99% who are not mental health care professionals. Why do they date them? These women choose to be men pleasers to get a man. But the get bored easily and after awhile they display their full crazy to get rid of the man so they can then enjoy the pleasure of catching another. They don't have normal relationships they have this "catch and release" philosophy and are probably single handedly responsible for most of the domestic violence we see today. The problem is the need to get a man to fall in love with them to make them feel good about themselves but then they need to dump him and do it all over again with another man to keep that good feeling. But in that process of dumping the man they become abusive and inexplicable in their actions and will themselves become violent. Often the man (especially if this is the first crazy women he has dated) is clueless as to what is going on and reacts to the violence and that is when the police become involved. 100 times worse if you marry them before you discover that they are crazy.

I predict only a few women will agree with me, most men will and zero mental health professionals will.