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Friday, September 11. 2020

Female sexual pleasure later in life

Young women tend to have little problem with sexual delights as long as their partner is not a dud or a selfish jerk.


Middle-aged women (40-65) tend to be more readily orgasmic. It is hormonal, in part. Women in good health remain capable of sexual delight and orgasm until death, but the climaxes are not the same.  Still satisfying, but not the screaming or moaning ones of a 35 year-old.


Healthy men over 60 tend to have a decline in sex drive and performance, but not in sexual/romantic interest. It's complicated.  It is age, hormonal issues, and other things. Men are, biologically, more excited by fertile females of course, but bonding with the wife is important. She's right there, and willing. With age (say, over 70 or 75) things are not what they were at 40 but men are still capable of, and needful of, romantic and sexual pleasure.


It is a component of life happiness. 


Yes, you can have better sex in midlife and in the years beyond. If sustaining intimacy is becoming more difficult, there are many approaches that can help.



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She's right there, and willing.Does "OK if I have to" count as "willing"?
#1 snopercod on 2020-09-11 20:21 (Reply)
In what universe do such middle-aged women exist? It isn't this one.
#2 Barry on 2020-09-11 21:12 (Reply)
Beat me to it Barry.

Excellent question.
#2.1 feeblemind on 2020-09-11 22:53 (Reply)
"participants reported increased vaginal lubrication, orgasm, and genital sensation after using a vibrator for three months." Probably so, but who can stay in bed that long?
#3 ronetc (Link) on 2020-09-12 07:25 (Reply)
Pay as much attention to what she wants as to what you want from her, and you're likely to get a different reaction--if it's not already too late. She's not a robot or an employee. If you want a willing interaction there have got to be two people whose desires matter.

Resentment, contempt, and despair aren't going to set the mood.
#4 Texan99 on 2020-09-12 08:38 (Reply)
Men get a woman into our lives to get love and that includes PLENTY of sex.
Women get a man into their lives because they want to con him into marrying them so they can later divorce rape him and run away with 75% of his net worth plus his indentured servitude for who knows how long with the encouragement of a misandric and feminazi society and a gynofascist court system and a white knight government bent on keeping women’s votes that will always vote communist, no matter what because that’s what women are.
MGTOW is the answer.
Men have to start seeing women for what they are: parasites with no honor who are out to do with us the same thing a Venus Fly Trap does with its victims: suck the life out of us through a long and torturous process of assassination until they can discard our dried out carcasses and go in search of their next victim.

Women enjoy sex in a way that dates to millions of years ago: from the fiercest and most alpha male they can get.
All the rest of the 90% of men count for nothing as sex goes for the vast majority of women.
No woman gets the hots from “nice” or “sensible” or any other BS.
They get the hots from top alpha males who will pump and dump them and back to the beginning until they hit The Wall.

They lie BEFORE marriage to con a dude into marrying them and then discover that “I’m not that sexual of a person” and try to navigate until the moment for the divorce rape with a couple of star fishing episodes a year. “We had sex on your birthday!! . . . What else do you waaaaaaaaant!! . . .” and so on and so forth.

The vast majority of women have zero sexual interest in the guy they con into marrying them.
They want a farm animal they can exploit for a time and then sell to the government and share the loot.
“Family” courts happy to oblige. They should be called “family destruction” courts.
Marriage is a feminazi re-distribution scheme from men to women.
You marry a woman, she gives you nothing and you give her 75% of your stuff and work for her for the reminder of your life.

That moronic article was written, SURPRISE, by a woman.
Women are the most hypocritical animal on the planet and if they are communicating, they are lying.

No woman gets to define what a man is or how a man should behave.
No penis, no opinion.

Gynocentrism, gynosupremacism, feminazism, gynofascism and white knighting have made the US a minefield for men.
And we are saying “no, thank you” and walking away.
We don’t have to go in there.
When the rules book says “you lose” you get up and leave.
You don’t play that game.

MGTOW MONK.
#5 George_Banner on 2020-09-12 09:32 (Reply)
When a person says "later in life" what does that mean? Historically, people were sexually active between the ages of sixteen and fifty. But now, old people are trying to pretend that they're still young. So the myth of geriatric virility must be maintained. But really, it's just a lie. Sexual expression, and eroticism, and bonding are all part of the process which leads to marriage and children. Sex is not just a hobby which can practiced with anyone. The new artificial sexual lives of elderly people is only possible because of drugs like Viagra. But what's worse, is that old people are actually trying to blend into the lives of young people. There are "sugar daddy" and "cougar" websites where young men and women can become professional prostitutes. Old men have a lot of money. Young men don't. So what you get is a sixty year old millionaire, dating an eighteen year old girl. It's nauseating.
#6 Ron Liebermann on 2020-09-13 14:05 (Reply)

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