Maggie's Farm

We have become so accustomed to blaming every human emotional differential on repressed homosexuality it seems we cannot consider other things: other conditions, other causes, etc.
Regarding T.E. Lawrence's sexuality I think the best (quick, easy, and reasoned) might be this:
Lawrence's biographers have discussed his sexuality at considerable length, and this discussion has spilled into the popular press.[55]

There is no reliable evidence for consensual sexual intimacy between Lawrence and any person. His friends have expressed the opinion that he was asexual,[56][57] and Lawrence himself specifically denied, in multiple private letters, any personal experience of sex.[58] While there were suggestions that Lawrence had been intimate with Dahoum, who worked with Lawrence at a pre-war archaeological dig in Carchemish,[59] and fellow-serviceman R.A.M. Guy,[60] his biographers and contemporaries have found them unconvincing.[59][60][61]

The dedication to his book Seven Pillars is a poem titled "To S.A." which opens:

I loved you, so I drew these tides of men into my hands
and wrote my will across the sky in stars
To earn you Freedom, the seven-pillared worthy house,
that your eyes might be shining for me
When we came.
Lawrence was never specific about the identity of "S.A." There are many theories which argue in favour of individual men, women, and the Arab nation. The most popular is that S.A. represents (at least in part) his companion Selim Ahmed, "Dahoum", who apparently died of typhus before 1918.[62]

Although Lawrence lived in a period during which official opposition to homosexuality was strong, his writing on the subject was tolerant. In Seven Pillars, when discussing relationships between young male fighters in the war, he refers on one occasion to "the openness and honesty of perfect love"[63] and on another to "friends quivering together in the yielding sand with intimate hot limbs in supreme embrace".[64] In a letter to Charlotte Shaw he wrote "I've seen lots of man-and-man loves: very lovely and fortunate some of them were."[65]

In both Seven Pillars and a 1919 letter to a military colleague,[66] Lawrence describes an episode on 20 November 1917 in which, while reconnoitring Dera'a in disguise, he was captured by the Ottoman military, heavily beaten, and sexually abused by the local Bey and his guardsmen. The precise nature of the sexual contact is not specified. There have been allegations that the episode was an invention of Lawrence’s and (with some evidence) that the injuries Lawrence claims to have suffered were exaggerated.[67] Although there is no independent testimony, the multiple consistent reports, and the absence of evidence for outright invention in Lawrence's works, make the account believable to his biographers.[68] At least three of Lawrence's biographers (Malcolm Brown, John E. Mack, and Jeremy Wilson) have argued this episode had strong psychological effects on Lawrence which may explain some of his unconventional behaviour in later life.

There is considerable evidence that Lawrence was a masochist. In his description of the Dera'a beating, Lawrence wrote "a delicious warmth, probably sexual, was swelling through me", and also included a detailed description of the guards' whip in a style typical of masochists' writing.[69] In later life, Lawrence arranged to pay a military colleague to administer beatings to him,[55] and to be subjected to severe formal tests of fitness and stamina.[70] While John Bruce, who first wrote on this topic, included some other claims which were not credible, Lawrence's biographers regard the beatings as established fact.[71]

John E. Mack sees a possible connection between T. E.'s masochism and the childhood beatings he had received from his mother[72] for routine misbehaviours.[73] His brother Arnold thought the beatings had been given for the purpose of breaking T. E.'s will.[73] Writing in 1997, Angus Calder noted that it is "astonishing" that earlier commentators discussing Lawrence's apparent masochism and self-loathing failed to consider the impact on Lawrence of having lost his brothers Frank and Will on the Western front, along with many other school friends.[74]